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Be All You Can Be: The Importance of Setting the Right Goal

17 Tuesday Apr 2012

Posted by Nephos in Bible Study, General, Leadership, Pastoral Ministry

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Charles Schultz, Charlie Brown, China Inland Mission, dreams, glorify God, goals, Hudson Taylor, James Russell Lowell, motivation

photo via Chris Downer

Have you ever dreamed of being better than you are? You listened to that singer, you watched that athlete, you tasted that meal and you said, “I wish I could do that!” In your imagination you were as good as they were.

I’ve often imagined dunking a basketball. I’ve watched the talented players in college games jump to unbelievable heights and slam the ball in the goal. In my mind’s eye, I can see myself doing the same thing. Now, at my age and physical condition, not to mention height to weight ratio, that’s just not going to happen. But it doesn’t stop me from dreaming. Someone summed it up by saying, “We’re all great in our dreams.”

Just because we may not reach our wildest dreams, doesn’t mean that we can’t be more than we are. The fact is that many of us fail to achieve the potential that lies within us. For various reasons, we are unable to “Be all we can be.” This is especially true in our relationship with God.

Matthew 22:34-40
“But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put the Sadducees to silence, they were gathered together. Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

Why are we here? Is there some reason for my existence? Some purpose for being on this planet? This is one of the great mysteries of life. Fortunately for us, the answer is found in the pages of the Bible.

It is God’s ultimate purpose for us to bring glory to Himself by being all that He intended us to be. Sin keeps us from this purpose. We are sinners by nature and by choice. In other words, we are born sinners, and we sin. It is sin that keeps us from fulfilling our potential.

How can we fulfill our God-given, God-glorifying potential? It begins with a goal. A goal enables us to focus on where we are going rather than where we are, or where we have been.

There are several benefits of a goal:
First, a goal will help maintain our sense of purpose. We know God’s purpose for us, but over time, we can lose our sense of it priority. Having a goal helps keep that purpose. Sadly, most people today wander through life with little or no direction.

Losing all purpose in life can be tragic. For some, it is even fatal. It may be a husband or wife who dies after the passing of a spouse of many years. Or a teenager who takes their own life, or a housewife at her wit’s end. Whatever the circumstances, it can often be traced back to the futility and hopelessness that come with a loss of purpose.

A goal will also provide us with motivation. It makes what you want to accomplish attainable. When you see that it is possible, it motivates you. A goal determines your direction. It shows you what to do. Have you ever felt like the Senator that was aboard a train? When the conductor came by, he was frantically searching for his ticket. He told the conductor, “I can’t seem to find my ticket.”

“That’s alright,” said the conductor said, “We know who you are. You don’t have to find it.”

“You don’t understand,” answered the embarrassed Senator, “I can’t remember where I’m getting of.”

Sometimes we feel the same way. On the train of life, headed somewhere fast, but not sure where we’re going.

Goals improve our focus. They allow us to focus on improvement rather than just activity. It’s easy to get caught up in the busyness of life, rather than the business of life. In order to focus on the truly important things in life, I have to be working toward the right goal.

Goals provide a way to measure our progress. They let us know if we are moving forward, and if we are still on track. There’s an old Charles Schulz cartoon where Charlie Brown is shooting a bow and arrow. He shoots an arrow that sticks in the fence, then goes over and draws a circle around it. That pretty much describes the approach of a lot of people. Just do whatever, and then pretend that’s what we were aiming for all along. That may help us claim success and feel good about ourselves, but a real goal helps insure we hit the target and make legitimate progress.

It’s clear we all need a goal, but what should that goal be? How high should we shoot? Maybe you are afraid to aim too high for fear of failure. James Russell Lowell said, “Not failure, but low aim is crime.” Low aim leads to little lives.

Low goals reflect self reliance instead of trust in God’s work and strength. The founder of the China Inland Mission, Hudson Taylor, said, “Many Christians estimate difficulties in the light of their own resources, and thus attempt little and often fail in the little they attempt.” When we rely only on our own strength, we will accomplish little. Thankfully we don’t have to only rely on ourselves. The Apostle Paul states, “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.”

In life, low aim may be a crime, but for a Christian, it is sin. “Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment.”

Jesus makes the Christian’s goal simple: “Love the Lord with all.” This is a high goal! In fact, it is the highest. The beauty of this God-given goal is that it will enable us to fulfill our God-given purpose. It is not more labor, but more love that God desires. Not greater works, but heartfelt worship. It’s not about religion, it’s about relationship.

You see, if you love God, you will labor. If we worship, we will work. That’s why God gives us one goal that will complete all His purpose for us.

Since we were created to love, we will only be fulfilled when we love the very one we were created to love. Thus, this one primary goal will effect God’s glory and our good. It will allow us to experience the “life more abundant.” When we love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, we will be all we can be.

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Nephos 9

31 Saturday Mar 2012

Posted by Nephos in Blogroll, Books, Christianity, General, Links, Nephos Nine, News, Politics, Prayer, Reading Excerpts, Running

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boycott, Daniel Wallace, footnotes, Martha Stewart, Russell Moore, Snoop Dogg, Starbucks, Timothy Paul Jones

For your weekend reading enjoyment . . .

1. In honor of April 1st, here’s the story of the greatest April 1 prank, ever.

2. Last week I commented on Kathy Keller’s article on raising children in the city. Jonathan McBride presents a different perspective in Why Do Cities Just Make Sense.

3. One word comes to mind here: Ouch!

4. Running + Life Lessons = Winning Combination. I really connected with Running Lessons from Trails from the Heart.

5. A national Christian organization called for a boycott of an international coffee chain.

6. Russell Moore responded with an explanation of “Why Christians shouldn’t boycott Starbucks.”

7. Being of the “Don’t boycott OR buy” mentality, MereOrthodoxy’s Starbucks, Boycotts, and (Not) Buying Coffee resonated more with me.

*Whatever your view and/or approach to this matter, it’s not going away. The number of corporations who are pro-actively working against our positions on social issues is going to increase. We need to be prepared to have a well-thought out ethical and Scriptural response.

8. Two prominent professors have recently begun blogs – both have been added to my regular reading list:
Timothy Paul Jones and Daniel B. Wallace.

9. Perceptively accurate!

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Nephos 9

04 Saturday Feb 2012

Posted by Nephos in abortion, General, Humor, Martyrs, Nephos Nine, News, Politics

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e-mail, Humor, Martyrs, Theology

For your weekend reading, the Nephos 9:

1. Burmese Christians cautious but hopeful – Flickers of Hope for Some of the World’s Longest Running Persecuted.

2. Jonathan McBride addresses the State of the Christian Union. He’s not the president, but I’d probably vote for him if he ran.

3. This insightful piece from Kevin DeYoung struck a chord with me, especially point 6. What the debates say about America.

4. Surprisingly, Europe’s courts have recently made several pro-life decisions. Europe’s Top Courts Are On a Pro-Life Roll.

5. Asics. Apparently I’ve been pronouncing it incorrectly. At least I’m not alone. Asics Rhymes with Classics?

6. The Wardrobe Door looks at the importance of ecclesiastical context (past and present) to our understanding of scripture. Do we need more than the Holy Spirit and our Bible for our theology?

7. This has happened to most of us. Maybe that’s why it made me laugh. And You Thought I was Perfect.

8. Ok. I am officially creeped out by this. Millions of Spiders Overrunning trees to Escape Floodwater.

9. Should have listened to those warnings!

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What I’d really like to say is . . .

31 Tuesday Jan 2012

Posted by Nephos in General, Humor, Rant

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free advice, get over yourself, Humor, Rant

Have you ever wanted to say something to someone but, for whatever reason, didn’t?

Here’s my most unstated advice: “Get over yourself!” Some folks just take themselves way too seriously. Some pontificate solely for the purpose of hearing themselves speak. Some wouldn’t know a joke if it slapped them in the face. Others tenaciously hold to a point of view, not because it’s necessarily right, but because it’s their’s.

To these (and many others) I would like to say “Get over yourself!” Don’t take yourself so seriously. I’ve seldom, if ever, actually uttered these words aloud, but they circulate through my mind frequently (often for my own admonishment).

I suspect Nephos readers are much more spiritual than to feel this way, but what advice would you like to offer, but haven’t?

(To protect the innocent, please don’t name the recipient of your wisdom!)

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When you feel like complaining . . . don’t.

21 Monday Nov 2011

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complaints, thankfulness, Thanksgiving

When you feel like complaining . . . remember.

via jenpeterson

The next time you feel like complaining about your job, remember there are many around you who would be thankful for any kind of a job . . . even one that’s worth complaining about.

When you feel like complaining about annoying family members that will visit you during the holidays, remember there are those who will be lonely during the holidays and would love to have family to spend them with.

When you feel like complaining about issues with technology, social media, and transportation, remember they are the solutions to the things we used to complain about.

When you feel like complaining about how tired you are, remember that there are many who would love for their only physical ailment to be weariness.

When you feel like complaining about our government, remember that there are those who face imprisonment, torture and death for doing so, and we still have the rights to voice our complaints.

When you feel like complaining about the economy, remember that the poorest in America still have it better than the majority of the world. In most countries, we would all be the 1%.

And when you feel like complaining about all your problems and needs in the material world, just remember the spiritual blessings and riches we have in Christ that remain unaffected by our physical situation.

Paul’s prayer is mine: “I pray that you may know the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the exceeding greatness of his power toward us who believe.”

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Monday Morning Blessings

15 Monday Aug 2011

Posted by Nephos in Church, General, Worship

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Monday morning blessings

It’s Monday morning and time to begin a new week.

Since Monday is sometimes considered the most discouraging day of the week, why not share a blessing from your worship yesterday?  A song? A friend? A sermon? A Scripture? What blessed you “on the Lord’s day?”

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There’s Pooh, On the Couch

03 Wednesday Aug 2011

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A. A. Milne, medication, personality, psychiatry, Winnie the Pooh

I’ve often thought the familiar Winnie the Pooh stories would make an interesting psychological study – each of the main characters having such distinct personality type.  Apparently someone else had the same idea but with a twist.  For each of the Hundred Acre Woods inhabitant’s symptom, here is the suggested medication.


 

What other fictional characters might be diagnosed by modern psychiatry? What medicine might be prescribed?
(Keep it clean, btw!!!)

From Dan Meth

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